My First Day At The Gym Was a Nightmare
You know that feeling when it seems like everyone’s watching you?
That was my day one. Skinny. Clueless. Felt Like an Imposter.
Asking for help? No way. “I’d rather look like I know what I’m doing.” [1]
I had no idea where to start, but I knew exactly where I wanted to end up. Bigger. Athletic. Shredded.
Maybe you’re in the same boat. Somewhat.
Perhaps you wanna shed some extra weight? Aesthetics?
Or you’ve realized cardio isn’t the whole fitness package and want to start lifting, because who knew [2] putting on some muscle could be this rewarding…even if it’s just a little?
And if you’re still stuck at home, wondering how to even step into a gym, you’re not alone.
I’ve been on this fitness journey for a year now. Still a beginner [3] but I’ve seen some solid results.
And now, I’m ready to share the basics with you.
This guide will give you the confidence to walk through that door, start lifting, and watch your strength (and your confidence) grow.
1. Consistently Show Up
The most important part of your fitness journey is simply showing up.
It doesn’t matter if you’re lifting weights or just figuring out how to use the treadmill.
Commit to show up. [4]
Whether your last workout was whack, everyone was looking at you, or you haven’t recovered from body aches.
2. Know The Different Muscle Groups
Your body comprises various muscle groups.
Working them all is essential to achieving a balanced physique.
The major groups include chest, back, legs, shoulders, arms & core.
Now, try to know which muscle(s) a particular exercise specifically targets.
3. Differentiate Sets & Reps
SETS and REPS are gym code words you’ll need to understand. [5]
Rep – 1 complete motion of an exercise.
Set – A group of consecutive reps.
E.g. If you do 10 push-ups, take a break, and do another 10
You’ve completed 2 sets of 10 reps each. Simple.
4. How Many Days In a Week?
Decide how many days a week you can realistically commit to the gym.
Whether it’s 2, 3, 4, 5 or 6 days, consistency matters.
If you’re new to working out, start with 2 or 3 days a week.
Gradually increase as your fitness improves.
5. Understand Your Body Goals
Before you start carrying weights, it’s crucial to understand what you want to achieve.
Do you want to build muscle (hypertrophy), endurance, increase your strength, or lose fat?
Each goal requires a different approach:
✅ Hypertrophy: Focus on moderate weights and higher reps (8-12 reps)
✅ Strength: Go for heavier weights, lower reps (1-6 reps) with longer rests
✅ Endurance: Focus on light weights, higher reps (15 reps +) with shorter rests
✅ Fat Loss: Combine weight lifting with cardio.
You can mix and match different approaches or stick to one, but knowing your goals will help you tailor your workouts and stay motivated.
6. Find a Program
Your workout program should match your goals and schedule.
If you aim for hypertrophy, consider a split routine targeting different muscle groups on other days.
If you’re short on time, a full-body workout might be the way to go.
Remember, the specific program matters less. [6]
Have a consistent schedule you stick to for a few months to track your progress.
7. Focus on Compound Exercises
Compound exercises are great because they involve multiple muscles simultaneously, thus improving overall muscle coordination.
They also save you time in the gym.
Here are a few to get started with:
✅ Squats: The best overall exercise for the lower body.
✅ Deadlifts: Engages your whole body apart from your chest.
✅ Bench Press: Consider this the king of upper body exercise.
✅ Lat Pulldown: Think of this as the essential back exercise.
✅ Overhead Press: Whether standing or seated, hits the shoulders.
8. Master Workouts Technique
Proper technique is key to avoiding injury and hitting the right muscles.
Here’s how to nail it:
✅ Watch YouTube videos.
✅ Ask a trainer for guidance.
✅ Train with a seasoned gym buddy.
✅ Ask anyone random. Trust me, they’ll help.
9. Workout Intensely
Intensity is what matters most in training. [7]
Even as you work smart, remember the importance of working hard.
Watch out for these to make sure you push yourself:
✅ Progressive Overload (Sets): Aim for 9-14 sets for each muscle group weekly. [8]
✅ Progressive Overload (Weight): Gradually & safely add more weight each week. [9]
✅ Progressive Overload (Reps): If 8 squats feel too easy, push for 12-15 reps next time.
✅ Increase Time Under Tension: Slow down your reps to keep your muscles under tension longer. [10]
10. Prioritize Rest
Rest is essential for recovery & performance.
When you work out, your muscles experience stress, tension & damage that need time to heal and grow stronger. [11]
Take off days during the week, space out your muscle-targeted workouts & prioritize quality sleep.
Now You’re Ready!
Resistance training should be part of your plan to live a healthier and fuller life as God intended.
Now that you have the basic building block on the gym essentials, I summon thee to go forth and conquer!
That’s my brother 😄😄
Bro sees. Bro inspired. Bro does😄